Mother breastfeeding newborn while older sibling watches, showing the connection and complexity of feeding in early parenthood

Breastfeeding- expectations and realities

Discover common expectations and real-life experiences of breastfeeding from a certified lactation consultant—plus a video guide to help you feel supported.

Expectations & Realities

This information and video are part of Nurtured Nest's on-demand course,  Infant Feeding Course

Every breastfeeding journey is unique—and so are the expectations that come with it. Whether you’re preparing to nurse for the first time or navigating early challenges, knowing what to expect (and what’s totally normal) can help you feel more prepared and less alone.

In this short video, our IBCLC and feeding expert Courtney Miller shares some of the most common expectations vs. realities she’s seen while supporting families—and offers gentle, practical guidance for the early weeks.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Common breastfeeding expectations—and why they can be misleading
  • What’s actually normal in the early weeks
  • How to manage the learning curve with patience and support

It’s easy to doubt yourself when you’re sleep-deprived and overwhelmed. But with the right support, guidance, and information, breastfeeding can become a more enjoyable and manageable part of your parenting experience.

Looking for more guidance?

Our full Infant Feeding Course covers bottle and breast, pumping, combo feeding, troubleshooting, and so much more.

Or browse our complete collection of self-paced parenting courses—designed by experts, built for real life.

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